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Saying Hello

Look, name, ask

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Also available in Spanish. The app stops after two lessons a day and suggests something to do away from the screen.

What it teaches

These are the lines the lesson comes back to, and the ones a child actually remembers afterwards.

Look first. Then talk.

Give your name before you ask for theirs.

Use the name they gave you.

Twice is enough. Then go and be fine.

How it starts

Meeting somebody new for the first time takes about ten seconds, and those ten seconds decide whether you end up playing together or standing there looking at the floor. There is a shape to it. Three things, in order. Once you know the shape you never have to wonder what to say first again.

How the lesson goes

Three things, in order

  1. Look at them
  2. Say your name
  3. Ask theirs

The whole thing

  1. Look at them
  2. Hi, I'm ___
  3. What's your name?
  4. Say their name back once

The question at the end

You've looked at them and said "Hi, I'm Noah." What comes next?

For the grown-up

Every lesson ends by handing the child something to do off the screen, and telling you what was taught so you can use the same words.

Try this today: Do all three with one person today, even somebody you already know. Look, say your name, ask theirs. Then say their name back once.

Then: Then tell a grown-up which of the three was hardest. It is almost always the asking.

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